With much praise and gratitude to Hashem, we have launched the website “PICK A DRASHA“, enabling each and every person, irrespective of his circumstances, to learn a Bar Mitzvah drasha together with his son.
As we built this site, we had in mind the many fathers who invest tremendous effort as their sons prepare to accept עול תורה ומצוות. We thought of those who struggle to find a drasha that truly suits their son’s level, of hardworking men who wish they had more time to learn, and of the precious boys who long to connect and learn with their fathers during this meaningful stage of life.
We took upon ourselves to compose a drasha for you that is clear, original and comprehensive. We have left no stone unturned. The drashot in our site are available in multiple levels of difficulty, beautifully presented in flowing and clear language. They come in five different languages, all at reasonable and affordable prices.
Our goal is to gift you the pleasure of learning together with your son and to equip you for some memorable “father and son” moments.
From Now On… the Bar Mitzvah Drasha Becomes an Experience to Treasure
Your son will approach his Bar Mitzvah with pride, confidence, and a deepened love for Torah.
You’ll look back at this process not as a chore, but as one of the most special memories you shared.
This isn’t just a drasha. It’s a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity.
It’s a journey you’ll both carry in your hearts forever.
All of the drashot on our website were expertly prepared by the renowned educator, Rabbi Avraham Yitzchak Grosskopf Shlit”a of Yerushalayim, an expert teacher, who has been teaching young teenagers and boys for over thirty years.
Rabbi Grosskopf is known for his unique ability to share the sweetness of Torah with his students, clearly and eloquently, regardless of their academic abilities.
In addition, Rabbi Grosskopf heads for over twenty years, a “Machon Shiurei Bar Mitzvah” organization in Jerusalem, where he introduces the boys to Hillchos teffilin, prepares them for their Bar Mitzvah and specializes in adapting droshot to ensure that they suit the perfect academic level of each and every student.
When preparing each drasha, we focused on two key goals:
1.That every father—regardless of his background in Torah learning—should be able to understand the drasha straight from the text. No prior knowledge is assumed. Everything is explained clearly and simply—just read and enjoy.
2.That even if a child needs to learn the drasha on his own, he should be able to fully grasp the content independently, just by reading the text.
To achieve these goals, each drasha is presented in two versions:
In the Lashon HaKodesh editions, we have deliberately chosen a conversational tone and, at times, have allowed for small deviations from grammatical norms. This choice was made to help the child feel that the drasha is speaking to him, in a familiar, natural voice.
The result?
A smooth, enjoyable learning experience—for both father and son.
The droshot and supplementary material are available in the following five languages:
· Loshon Ha’Kodesh (Ivrit)
· Yiddish
· English
· French
· Spanish
Choosing the Right Drasha for Your Son
Once you’ve taken the time to assess what’s truly in your son’s best interest—his abilities, his motivation, and the time available—the next step is finding a drasha that’s a perfect fit.
To help you do that, we’ve carefully organized our selection into five levels, so you can easily choose a drasha that matches your son’s academic profile and learning style.
Level 1 – Simplest and Most Accessible
Designed for boys who find learning particularly challenging—especially if their average Gemara test score is below 40%. These drashot are written with clarity and warmth, to make the experience uplifting and achievable.
Level 2 – For Emerging Learners
Ideal for boys with a basic grasp of learning, averaging around 60% on Gemara tests. These drashot offer a bit more depth while remaining highly accessible and enjoyable.
Level 3 – Solid and Confident Learners
Recommended for students who are consistent and capable, with an average score of about 80%. These drashot contain more substance and are suited to boys who enjoy thoughtful engagement with the material.
Level 4 – Advanced Students
Meant for boys with excellent comprehension and little difficulty following complex ideas. If your son consistently scores near 100% and thrives on depth, this level offers a meaningful challenge.
Level 5 – Exceptional and Gifted Learners
These drashot are longer, more intricate, and intellectually demanding—comparable in depth to a full siman in Sha’agas Aryeh. They are suited to boys with outstanding abilities who enjoy deep conceptual learning and wish to take on something truly exceptional.
Please note:
To boost your son’s confidence while delivering the drasha—and to ease any anxiety about forgetting parts of it—we’ve included a special summary page.
This one-page overview lays out the full structure of the drasha in a clear, organized format, with large, easy-to-read text. Questions appear in red and answers in green, to help the eye quickly find what it needs.
This page can be discreetly placed on the table in front of your son, allowing him—if needed—to glance down, easily locate his place, and recall the next part of the drasha with calm and confidence.
We also provide the sources of the Drasha, copies of the relevant pages of Gemara as well as the Rishonim etc.
This way, even if you will be learning with your son in a place without the necessary seforim at hand, you will always be able to print out the sources and learn from them.
* Do you want your son to review the drasha independently, in a clear and concise way?
* Have you already learned the drasha with your son, but he still doesn’t fully understand it and you don’t have time to learn it with him a second time?
* Did you think that you would have the time to learn with your son but in the end you see that time is too tight?
If the answer to any of these questions is yes, you can purchase the accompanying “audio shiur” for the drasha that you purchased. The entire shiur is delivered clearly and eloquently and closely follows the explanatory text of the drasha.
Moreover, in between sections the Maggid shiur pauses and summarizes what has been said up to that point.
This way, your son can sit and listen to the drasha in a calm and unpressured manner, while following the text inside.
A Unique Pamphlet on the Bar Mitzvah Drasha
This carefully curated pamphlet beautifully compiles essential ideas related to preparing the Bar Mitzvah drasha, including its profound benefits, relevant minhagim, and important customs.
By studying this booklet, your son will gain a deeper appreciation for the significance and value of preparing and delivering his drasha, while also becoming acquainted with key minhagim and practices associated with the Bar Mitzvah.
To maximize its relevance and usefulness, the booklet has been meticulously edited to exclude any extraneous content. It contains no unrelated stories or anecdotes—only material directly connected to the Bar Mitzvah and the drasha itself.
An Additional Innovation from the “PICK A DRASHA” Team
Included in this package is an exclusive class presented by respected lecturers and educators, designed to prepare your son to deliver his drasha with complete confidence and calm.
Since many boys experience anxiety before speaking, this session aims to ease those concerns, boost self-assurance, and help him approach his big moment with enthusiasm and composure.
Wishing you much success with your choice and an enjoyable learning experience with your dear son!
